<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post2679365373703961815..comments</id><updated>2008-08-02T18:46:25.304-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Seeking My Zen Garden: It's a Beautiful Day in the Hood!</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/feeds/2679365373703961815/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html'/><author><name>PEACE</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03408966166176683628</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-6373788998387161911</id><published>2008-08-02T18:46:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-08-02T18:46:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I love both of those!</title><content type='html'>I love both of those!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/6373788998387161911'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/6373788998387161911'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html?showComment=1217727960000#c6373788998387161911' title=''/><author><name>Rachel</name><uri>http://ahippychick.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-2679365373703961815' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/posts/default/2679365373703961815' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-8735239568461864399</id><published>2008-08-01T15:51:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-08-01T15:51:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>oooooooh..sexy mama with the ready to go hair dos....</title><content type='html'>oooooooh..sexy mama with the ready to go hair dos. Cute,and Sexy Bren. Change your personality in an instant. I did look online and as far as eyelashes they said you could just use false eyelashes.  I even found false eyebrows.  See you soon sissy.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/8735239568461864399'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/8735239568461864399'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html?showComment=1217631060000#c8735239568461864399' title=''/><author><name>joyful</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15980909191895433844</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-2679365373703961815' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/posts/default/2679365373703961815' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-7121499879860092727</id><published>2008-08-01T09:07:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-08-01T09:07:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Peter,It's hard sometimes, but ultimately we need ...</title><content type='html'>Peter,&lt;BR/&gt;It's hard sometimes, but ultimately we need to decide:  are we going to be a bouncy Tigger or a grumpy Eyore.&lt;BR/&gt;Definately, I'm not up all the time, I've had some down days, but mostly because of lack of energy that pissed me off.  For me, I have to get out the house and the four walls and get out side.  Hitting golf balls into the ocean (or smacking tennis balls) can do wonders for anyone!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Whenever I am feeling sorry for myself I remember a lady that came in to order flowers for a funeral.  Her husband had died years ago and her only daughter and three grandchildren had been killed in a fire. Her son-in-law and jumped out the second story window and the wife had the kids and was supposed to throw them to him, but was overcome by smoke.  That lady lost her entire family.  Yet, her concern was for her son-in-law.  I knew then that there are some real tragedies in this life.  My problems seemed so trivial in comparison, how could I ever complain again about my life?&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I wish your SO well, but if he has been hanging around the house, you need to get him out!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Peace!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/7121499879860092727'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/7121499879860092727'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html?showComment=1217606820000#c7121499879860092727' title=''/><author><name>PEACE</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03408966166176683628</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='03638322305961089865'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-2679365373703961815' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/posts/default/2679365373703961815' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-6080350060539046473</id><published>2008-08-01T08:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-08-01T08:29:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Just three! Well, that sure is very uplifting news...</title><content type='html'>Just three! Well, that sure is very uplifting news Brenda. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I really admire how you keep a positive focus (and even go looking for some silicone boobies in the boxes ;-)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Personal: my SO has been having some (non major) health issues and has become quite grumpy these past few weeks. I'll pass on your &lt;BR/&gt;'stop complaining about the cards you are dealt' advice: he does need to start building a more positive attitude. I'm quite willing to help him, but in the end, it's his own choice.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Thanks for your comment on 'boobs for Belgium': if Obama voters can get away with it, so can we :-)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/6080350060539046473'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/6080350060539046473'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html?showComment=1217604540000#c6080350060539046473' title=''/><author><name>Peter</name><uri>http://antwerp.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-2679365373703961815' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/posts/default/2679365373703961815' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-135019633111645512</id><published>2008-07-31T20:12:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-07-31T20:12:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you Mama Zen!  I like it too.</title><content type='html'>Thank you Mama Zen!  I like it too.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/135019633111645512'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/135019633111645512'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html?showComment=1217560320000#c135019633111645512' title=''/><author><name>PEACE</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03408966166176683628</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='03638322305961089865'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-2679365373703961815' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/posts/default/2679365373703961815' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-8520707848124739662</id><published>2008-07-31T19:55:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-07-31T19:55:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Your blog has the best tag line EVER!</title><content type='html'>Your blog has the best tag line EVER!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/8520707848124739662'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/2679365373703961815/comments/default/8520707848124739662'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html?showComment=1217559300000#c8520707848124739662' title=''/><author><name>Mama Zen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03669688074743095866</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://brendabender.blogspot.com/2008/07/its-beautiful-day-in-hood.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32309294.post-2679365373703961815' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/32309294/posts/default/2679365373703961815' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>